June and I went out for food two hours ago. I kinda like it when she stays over, because we do all the crazy things [videos soon!] and talk way a lot of nonsense. It's those unfulfilled needs a girl always wanted during her teen life - Sleepovers/Slumber parties. My parents never allowed those. I think I missed out a lot in my teenage years. I grew up too fast.
Back to where I was...
We were walking back when this car with a group of malay boys inside drove pass, showing off their turbo engine, pressing the car horn, etc. Guy at the back, with his shitty-looking shades put his head out of the window and called/teased/hollered/"insert own adjective here" us. I really despise guys who act as if they have never seen a girl before. So jakun! It really boils me up. I still think it's a form of
harassment.
Merriam-Webster defines 'harass' as:
- Main Entry: ha·rass
- Pronunciation: \hə-ˈras; ˈher-əs, ˈha-rəs\
- Function: transitive verb
- Etymology: French harasser, from Middle French, from harer to set a dog on, from Old French hare, interjection used to incite dogs, of Germanic origin; akin to Old High German hier here — more at here
- Date: 1617
1 a : exhaust, fatigue b (1) : to annoy persistently (2) : to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct
2 : to worry and impede by repeated raids <harassed the enemy>
Doesn't that serve as concrete proof that I am being harassed on a daily-basis? Oh, that explains my psychologically disturbed character! (I am being sarcastic, d'oh!)
Anyway, imagine going through that on a daily-basis, and it just boils me up so much, to the extend that if grenades were made legal to 21-years old female Malaysians, I will be carrying a bag-full and tossing one (or more) at every single uncivilised homosapien which act alike.
Instead, I gave them the finger and a grunted look.
Guy got shocked. Deliberated with his friends as they drove ahead slowly. To my surprise, they stopped by the side of the road, a little way ahead of us. So I alerted June. Damn! They wanna fight now?
See, I always wish I was a guy.
We walked slowly, hoping they would leave. But they drove a little further ahead, and turned into the row of shops next to where I live. I turned to June and said "RUN!"
Hopefully they were stupid enough to not notice where I live.
Frankly speaking, it was kinda fun. *shrugs* I am adventurous. But that act was totally asking for unwanted trouble. Though I can still rebut by telling you how absolutely annoyed I am with those male species! Ever heard of the bottle-neck theory?
For safety's sake, I won't be leaving my place today in case those assholes have nothing better to do and really decide to wait for me outside the premises of my apartment (I still think it suffices as flats).
I ought to hire a bodyguard.
By the way, my parents are going to nag if I share this story with them. Which I most probably will, although I really can't stand them nagging. As I said, I am a trouble-seeker. Well, I'm just bored I guess. HAHA!
Girls, tell me what do you think? When you are minding your own business, walking on the streets, and all these hooligans in their automobile drive pass, cat-calling/teasing/harassing/"insert own adjective". Don't you find that ANNOYING? Do you agree that it's a form of harassment?
Comment below. I shall compile feedbacks, and do a research during my sem break. heh!